"I am called to live in such a perfect relationship with God that my life produces a yearning for God in the lives of others, not admiration for myself. God's purpose is not to perfect me to make me a trophy in His showcase, He is getting me to the place where He can use me.
Let Him do what He wants."
-Oswald Chambers
2.3.12
Hm. On the heels of what I blogged about last night...
1.3.12
vulnerABILITY
I told a co-worker today that I went out for drinks with some good friends the other night and he started at me in disbelief saying "Wha? I thought you were a goodie two-shoes?" I responded by asking what he meant by that. He said, "Well, cause you're all religious and junk. Thought you'd be against all that stuff." I proceeded to tell him that I don't have qualms about the occasional drink, or going out dancing, taking hip hop class or meeting friends at the bars. I talked about how I believe that Jesus would've done the same... hung out at bars, as opposed to churches, since he had a propensity to "kick it" with those who needed Him the most, not just the marginalized and ostracized by society, the poor and downtrodden, but the lost and searching as well.
I reflected on my own personal relationship with God. I really hope I don't sound pretentious when I go off on my theological rants. Well, I hope they are not too "rant"-like. Often, these blog posts are triggered by conviction, or pain and suffering, or other kinds of trials in my life. It's all I've ever done after something hard happens. When I'm hurting, I have learned that the only real thing that will meet the depths of my heart ache is Jesus (I believe this is true for everyone, not just me). I know I won't always feel like He loves me or that He wants the best for me, but I know or at least choose to believe that this is true. It does seem like though I am "preaching" to the general public, I am mostly preaching to myself. I am clingy to God, the Truth in the Bible and godly wisdom. When life is tough, anything else is pure crap. Objective truth helps filter through anything and everything that bombards you when things are difficult. When my emotions are out of control, I need Truth to solidly anchor me: God is predictably good. He saves and redeems. He is not cruel and unjust. He is righteous. He is hope for the hopeless. He is a loving Father and the God of Comfort. He has forgiven me and called me His own, etc.
In a way I feel like I need to justify myself with people. That this isn't fake, that I really can't help the way I am when it comes to my spirituality. That I am this deep when it comes to my relationship with God, that most of the time, I just choose to trust Him and believe He will come through and show me what He is doing through all the shit and turmoil that I may be experiencing. I am frustrated with myself that I feel like that I need to prove myself. It's just hard not to care when you're biggest hang up is AFFIRMATION from people. Guh. Well, here's whats real: I don't always feel like trusting Him. I sometimes tell Him that I don't like any of it. Like today, when I was driving home from work. I said that life is not my favorite right now, so I'm waiting expectantly for Him to really come through.
I know that being hopeful or prayerful or consistent in hard times is difficult. It's gut-wrenching to surrender to God when all you want to do is NOT surrender. However, I also cannot stand obstinately before God with my middle finger in the air, saying "Screw this, I'm living the way I want to." I do know that that's not helpful. I have a few staunch examples in my life to remind me that leaning and trusting versus running away is always the better option. A hardened heart will continue to dig itself into a hellish nightmare--and the deeper you go, the harder it is to get out and consequences multiply and often linger for years and years.
I used to be painfully religious and I am really thankful I am less so. I think it was a great opportunity to share my journey and the way God has shaped me thus far to show others who assume that Christians can only be closed-minded and opinionated something different. I don't think anyone would've ever called Jesus "religious." He related to the people that He was around. He seemed more genuine and more real than all the other rabbis. I think that's what really drew people to Him. And I hope the same goes for me. I mean, I think it's a double edged sword. I know people will be judgmental either way. It all depends on which angle you look at it. I can be too "spiritual" or not convicted enough. "Too deep" or too "into the world." Whatever.
I reflected on my own personal relationship with God. I really hope I don't sound pretentious when I go off on my theological rants. Well, I hope they are not too "rant"-like. Often, these blog posts are triggered by conviction, or pain and suffering, or other kinds of trials in my life. It's all I've ever done after something hard happens. When I'm hurting, I have learned that the only real thing that will meet the depths of my heart ache is Jesus (I believe this is true for everyone, not just me). I know I won't always feel like He loves me or that He wants the best for me, but I know or at least choose to believe that this is true. It does seem like though I am "preaching" to the general public, I am mostly preaching to myself. I am clingy to God, the Truth in the Bible and godly wisdom. When life is tough, anything else is pure crap. Objective truth helps filter through anything and everything that bombards you when things are difficult. When my emotions are out of control, I need Truth to solidly anchor me: God is predictably good. He saves and redeems. He is not cruel and unjust. He is righteous. He is hope for the hopeless. He is a loving Father and the God of Comfort. He has forgiven me and called me His own, etc.
In a way I feel like I need to justify myself with people. That this isn't fake, that I really can't help the way I am when it comes to my spirituality. That I am this deep when it comes to my relationship with God, that most of the time, I just choose to trust Him and believe He will come through and show me what He is doing through all the shit and turmoil that I may be experiencing. I am frustrated with myself that I feel like that I need to prove myself. It's just hard not to care when you're biggest hang up is AFFIRMATION from people. Guh. Well, here's whats real: I don't always feel like trusting Him. I sometimes tell Him that I don't like any of it. Like today, when I was driving home from work. I said that life is not my favorite right now, so I'm waiting expectantly for Him to really come through.
I know that being hopeful or prayerful or consistent in hard times is difficult. It's gut-wrenching to surrender to God when all you want to do is NOT surrender. However, I also cannot stand obstinately before God with my middle finger in the air, saying "Screw this, I'm living the way I want to." I do know that that's not helpful. I have a few staunch examples in my life to remind me that leaning and trusting versus running away is always the better option. A hardened heart will continue to dig itself into a hellish nightmare--and the deeper you go, the harder it is to get out and consequences multiply and often linger for years and years.
I used to be painfully religious and I am really thankful I am less so. I think it was a great opportunity to share my journey and the way God has shaped me thus far to show others who assume that Christians can only be closed-minded and opinionated something different. I don't think anyone would've ever called Jesus "religious." He related to the people that He was around. He seemed more genuine and more real than all the other rabbis. I think that's what really drew people to Him. And I hope the same goes for me. I mean, I think it's a double edged sword. I know people will be judgmental either way. It all depends on which angle you look at it. I can be too "spiritual" or not convicted enough. "Too deep" or too "into the world." Whatever.
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